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As if this struggle isn’t hard enough… How difficult it seems to hear I’m terribly negative and clearly unhappy in a troubled marriage, to the point where someone can’t bear to read my posts any longer…

And here I thought I wasn’t really doing too bad in handling the crap I’m going though!

All perspective I guess…

11 thoughts on “Wow

  1. Um seriously f**k a bunch of haters. It’s totally unfair of anyone to judge your marriage or life based on what you post on your blog. It’s like seeing a single sliver of someone’s life. And she can’t offer support because you’re too negative? Give me a break. I’m so damned sick of everything having to be all rainbows and “baby dust.” You bitch all you want girl!

    1. Thank you! I’m fairly certain I will continue to bitch and complain πŸ™‚

  2. What andiepants said with a few more ‘fuck ems’! Blogs are cheaper than therapy, I literally use mine as a moan dump! I really hope you don’t let these people get to you, focus on what is important xxxxx

    1. Thank you πŸ™‚

  3. People who act as if you shouldn’t have any struggles in your life and who act as if their lives are perfect– are usually the most F’d up! Struggles are NORMAL. Getting upset with your husband is NORMAL. As my Mother constantly reminds me– Men are wired differently than women and do very STUPID things sometimes (in our eyes!)! I read those comments that that person wrote on your previous blog post, and it seems as if someone was busy playing make believe riding on their high horse (or probably a unicorn in their fancy world). If our husbands and marriages were all perfect– let’s be honest, we’d get bored. Struggle is good. It lets you know you are growing together, yet still have your own views, and makes the sweet moments even sweeter. Ignore that person. Baby dust to you and your real-life-normal-not-fairytale marraige!

    1. Thank you so much! Your kind words mean a lot to me πŸ™‚

  4. Ugh… You write whatever you want to write. Be yourself and be honest. That’s the point.

    1. Thank you! I’m fairly certain I will continue to bitch and complain on here… so perhaps best they unfollowed me now rather than later. Some people, I tell ya.

  5. If you did sentiment analysis on my blog I’m pretty sure mine would be majority negative too. Doesn’t mean my life is negative – just means I’m not using it as a space to show how great it is .. it’s not Instagram.

    1. Thank you for understanding! The point of my blog was really to get out my feelings. I don’t need to bitch about the happy stuff in my life, therefore those areas aren’t always mentioned, but it doesn’t mean they aren’t there. Ugh, some people, I tell ya!

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