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Take that…

I had to hold my tongue again several times today. And I know, I’m not supposed to give any attention to those purposefully making inappropriate, SPAM comments on my blog, but I have a few things I need to get off my chest.

First, now that I understand how you troll blogs to SPAM… well, let’s just say, your words don’t hurt me, although they are damn annoying! (Don’t worry, the fix for that is coming, keep reading.)

Second, and let’s not make this a war of words, but I would like to say that your comments obviously speak to your own insecurities. I realize I have an amazing life, awesome husband, who did I mention is a surgeon, a successful career, a beautiful home, a baby on the way, an enormous group of supporters, and so much more. I’m truly blessed. So yes, there is no doubt in my mind your life does not even come close to how wonderful and amazing mine is!  You should probably figure out a new way to deal with that.

Third, apparently you aren’t very bright, as with a tiny bit of research I’ve detected your IP address, yes, both of you. Apparently you didn’t do your research on that one, now did you?? For the one of you that frequents Rockwell, I’m guessing they’ll love knowing their internet and company assets are being used inappropriately. I’m not sure if that’s cause for termination, so many policies there, but if so, you can thank me later. Did you really think I wouldn’t figure out who you were???

All that said, since your comments don’t bother me, I could just continue to mark them as spam, but honestly, neither of you deserve to know the intimate details of my life, and for that reason, I’ve decided to continue my blog, but in a more private manner.

Those of you I’ve met though WordPress who currently follow my blog with registered accounts, I’ll try to make sure I set you all up with access, once I figure it out! And by all means, along the way, if you know of other bloggers you believe could share useful information with me, please send them my way, since I assume they won’t be able to locate me on their own.

For those of you who know me in real life, I still wish for all of you to continue your access as well. I’ll try to send you all an invite link, although golly, I can’t even remember who I all told about this blog! So, if you want to make sure I include you, please text or email me. If you’re worthy of following my life, I assume you know how to get ahold of me!

Thank you one and all for all your positive support along this journey. I have a feeling the fun is just beginning!

18 thoughts on “Take that…

  1. So sorry this has continued to be a problem. Would love to keep following you! You can email me at

    1. I’ll make sure to include you on the list, once I figure it out! Apparently I have several enemies out there 🙁

      1. That’s awful. You have to be a pretty pathetic person to find your fun leaving mean comments on a blog. So glad you have a plan of action!

  2. So sad that it has to come to that. If I don’t continue having access to your blog I wish you nothing but success. Good luck with your upcoming Beta!!

    1. I’ll make sure to include you once I figure out how! Thank you!

  3. Ugh- haters gonna hate. Love reading your updates and so excited for you!!

  4. It’s sad it has to come to this. Wishing you the best of luck and would love to continue following. I need to set up an email address to use for blogging…your post reminded me of that!

  5. People can really suck. Keep me on your list!

  6. I’m sorry you have to take this step, but at least after you do you will know all of your readers are here to follow your journey and cheer you on. So glad you won’t let yourself be bullied and are finding a solution. Hugs!

  7. Oh Stef I can’t wait to talk to you more about “those” people from our former lives! This is hilarious that you researched them.

  8. I’d like to be included too!

  9. I’m sorry that you are dealing with all this crap. I just don’t understand people! Please send me a link when you get the new privacy settings up and running, I’d love to keep following your journey 🙂

    1. Will do!

  10. I would love to continue following your journey, and now with your BFP!!! I can’t believe how awful people can be. Especially within this positive circle. That’s awesome you called them out!!!

  11. Some people suck! I still want to follow if you still want to share … Oh AND !!! YAY to two lines this morning (I’m just having a HUGE catch up!)

  12. Aww, I’m so sorry. I think the (perceived) anonymity of the internet leads people to be even meaner in this forum than they would in person. I would love to continue to follow you! Can’t wait to read about your betas! 🙂

  13. I am dying to know if you retested today!!! So excited for you!!! Thanks for the access to your blog. SOOOO happy for you!!!

    1. Thank you! I did retest, and I feel like both lines, while still there, are both lighter today… What the… I’ll post the picture of the two tests later tonight!

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